I receive nice emails from all over the world every day asking for advice. Yesterday I got one from a father in Ireland asking how he could check if his 30 year old daughter was taking laxatives because she couldn't handle dieting. I told him to take her out in the car for over an hour and see if she started panicking for the toilet, that's usually a giveaway. More importantly though, I told him that at that age she was old enough to make her own decisions and that he shouldnt be controlling her. Obviously I wont hear from him again but I always tell people the truth, even if they dont like it and don't have the guts to accept it. As the saying goes, "above all, be true unto thine self"
